(We join the regularly-scheduled-meeting-of-the-Insecure-Writers-Support-Group, already in progress...)
This past weekend I had a chance to visit with Wit's family again. For those unfamiliar with Wit, that's the alias I gave my cousin last year. She was my writer-in-the-family that I got to talk to about this sort of thing (writing). She also happens to be fifteen.
So it turns out her sister likes writing, too. Her sister, whom I'll call Soul, is younger than her. I had no idea, until this visit, that she likes writing, too. So it kind of derailed what I had intended to talk about during the visit.
I ended up, briefly, chatting with Soul about writing. Turns out she likes writing in notebooks. I told her that's good. I'm told the act of physically writing is a good creative outlet in and of itself. It stimulates the brain to think in ways it wouldn't when, say, typing on a keyboard. I told her, truthfully, that sometimes I begin new stories by writing some of it out in notebooks I carry with me everywhere.
And that's pretty much the extent of my writing conversations from the weekend. Never even touched base with Wit. The weekend ended with possible plans to meet up again for the July 4th weekend.
I'm talking to you about this, not to remind you about Wit, or to tell you about her sister Soul, but because I'm sad about chickening out. When I talked about Wit last time, I was flush with the idea that I had a writer in the family. At last! Their mother, and her sister, have always been among my kindest supporters in the family, and so it was nice to know they were fostering little writers of their own. I mean, despite what the Internet may have you believe, writing is a lonely calling. Isn't that the whole point of the IWSG? (Maybe it's just me, but isn't the group better for alleviating loneliness than insecurity? Well, it should be.)
Then again, I'm not sorry, because I knew exactly what I was thinking throughout the weekend. I didn't want to come off like I was desperately trying to connect with them. From my own experience, conversations are best when they happen organically. I spent nearly a decade away from Wit and Soul as it is. They grew up considerably in the time I was away! So really, I'm just getting to know them again.
But it's good to know they like writing. That's something to work on, right? And that's what writers always do. They find something to work on. And we're always busy, aren't we?